Gay Nigerian Chika Nwafor Divorces German Husband.

Got this from a fellow blogger and thought I should share, please take time to read the story and share your thoughts since this kind of practice is eating deep into our society and we all need the grace of God to survive.

This an interview that Stella of http://dimokokorkusstella.blogspot.com had with Chika Nwafor.

The gay marriage which was contracted in 2008 between Nigerian born chika valentine nwafor and German marc schwarz has ended. The two men who recently visited Nigeria as a couple to see chika's people and understand his lifestyle are no longer in love. (The couple also received a lot of bashing recently when the story I did on them in Encomium magazine was published online)

Chika

Marc Schwarz

Mr chika wrote something spectacular on his blog and I contacted him to find out what was wrong and he opened up sounding very hurt and betrayed.
this is what he told me ''Finally i am free but still a close friend to marc but i live on my own now'' i nicely asked what happened and he explains further.
''Yes I moved out as I can't stand his cheating anymore and I moved out with our son Boris. we are finally signing our divorce by Wednesday july 27,2011.But we are still friends and I need my life to cope and bring my son up well
 

Suprised i asked again ''But divorce only comes up after two years of separation'' he tells me ''Am sorry its his profession and he chose it how I want it '' ''so what are you getting from the divorce chika?'' ''i am getting Where i am living now with my son Boris which is a 3 bedroom flat , my car, my shop, Boris' up keep and him paying me for the next 6 months.Isn't that ok for me? Let him continue f***king around as I don't care anymore''.
 

i asked more questions and he continues ''Am single and seriously searching for an honest ,sincere and genuine one and not those that will only lay me on bed and take advantage of me or start demanding money like Nigerian guys are doing.i saw it coming and The fact is that am not shocked at all neither does he even care but the best of it is am on my own once again.my son is all the happiness I have ''

 

''chika what if marc begs you to make up before you sign the divorce paper''?
chika tells me '' Even if Marc begs i am sorry I don't want anymore,i am through with him. I Have taken the decision to move on and this time I think I will settle with a Nigerian who stays close to me here(stuutgart) he seems to care and loves me''
 

''Chika do you want to marry the Nigerian man now?'' ''Well I don't need marriage again dear sister, we can be lovers and not marriage because I don't want any man to dictate for me and my son again. All I need is a soul companion who will always love me for who I am and not mess up with my feelings as all men need is to lay me on bed and soon take off after satisfying themselves but I've learnt my lession and I don't need marriage again so when things start going bad I will bear it and stand on my feet''
 

''So marc was bossing you around?'' ''Sure marc used to order me around, though he loves me but still that Ego in him I hate but it is all in the past now as far as am concernd.the sister said I should forgive but I said its over, at least let him respect me for once.I have feelings and am a human being and not an animal or object of sex or his sex toy which he uses 3times every night and even upon that still has the guts to bring some bitch man to my bedroom.
He sees some other guys he's cooling off with. as for me I have admirers but still don't want anyone around me now''.
 

And then i round up by telling chika ''eyaah sorry oh'' and he replies''why sorry?i am okay the way i am,at least no one will lay on me every night,no more pains all over my body after every three rounds of sex every night''.
 

Shocked i asked him''why is sex painful for you chika?'' His response?..''well its not painful,what is painful is seeing the man whom you know just slept with someone else still come to climb you,that hurts''

 

The couple have an almost 11month old son they adopted from America and they named him boris chika schwarz. I am at a loss for words,like i said before concerning the gay issue,i am not homophobic but i am yet to understand how two men can love each other and swear for better for worse. Here's hoping Chika takes out time to heal and care for his son boris!

 

Hmm, sex three times everynight!! wow, What are you guys thinking at this moment?? share your thoughts please.

 

MERCY JOHNSON TURNS OVER NEW LEAF

MERCY JOHNSON

 

You might have seen the last of popular Nollywood actress, Mercy Johnson, in skimpy body-hugging and scanty apparels.

As it is, her fans might have enjoyed the last taste of her luscious body as the Kogi State born actress, preparatory to her August wedding, has had a turn-around as far as dressing is concerned.

She told her audience in a recent interview "you can see me now, I’m all covered up," she says.

“I’ve started doing that, if you watch my recent movies, I’ve cut down on a lot of things. The normal Mercy Johnson will go all out as a single girl; I’ll not do that now and I’ve started since last year by cutting down on dressing, and acting; you can dress like this (examining herself) and show nothing.”

The top flight Nollywood act has told the world that she would be getting married in August and that this time, it’s for real. 

 

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New Beginnings

Happy new month everyone!!!

Hope you are all well and hearty. My life has been exceptionally awesome! Infact, am not sure I could have wished for any better. I had a blessed gift at the end of July, and guess what? Yours truly is now an aunty!!!

 

My big brother's wife had a bouncing baby boy yesterday and the whole family is so excited about the miracle. Hmm... What a blessed way to end the month, the baby is so adorable, and that makes me want to have another baby! Yeeaaaahh! I'm that happy. lol

This month of August for me, is a month of new beginnings, this is the month wherein all I may have tried and failed at, I will try again and again until I win. I am saying to myself, my past is over and my best is yet to come starting from now.

Guess you all have some resolutions for this month and how to re-strategies on certain things in order to make certain other things happen. Wishing everyone well in their endeavours.

Moving further, the organization I work with, has adopted new ways of checking on staff credibility, especially in the area of our timing-promptness and punctuality; especially on time in, time out and lunch times. We now use something they call time-ware assess control, which has to do with thumb printing.

I was so surprised to see "some" habitual latecomers, coming into the office very early today. lol. Hmm... But on a more serious note, I wonder why it is, that until there is some form of drastic measure put in place, people (and I do not mean to generalize) will continue to behave in the in-disciplined manner they do. 

My advice is, let us learn to be disciplined in all areas of our lives even when we think no one is watching. And, self discipline starts from the mind.   

My prayer for all of us this month is that, even as the year runs towards its end, each and everyone of us will be able to achieve all that we hope for and be able to enjoy all the blessing that our God has for us. 

If you see people without a smile today, give them one of yours. A blessed day and a productive month to you all.

Peace, I'm out!